How Do We Move On?

Everything we do or decide has its good and bad sides. Deciding whether or not to go forward with it depends on how we juggle between them. Depends on how we look at it in general.

You could look at only the good side, and everything in it would look nice and dandy. However, you may miscalculate and go forward, then get stuck with the bad side later.

If you look at only the bad side, then things would look like an endless dark tunnel. You decide to drop it, but you might be missing something by not going forward. Either way, you have to make a decision that's basically a trade-off, and eventually live with it.

Let's say you drop it because you thought the bad outweighed the good, and you thought that's a conscious decision to make. More importantly, you believe in it. However, what you possibly missed by dropping it keeps haunting you. In other words, the good side that was outweighed by the bad one still haunts you.

You at least try to make yourself busy, but everything around you reminds you of it. You walk around, go to school, drive around, go to the gym, do your homework, hang out, blog, play, etc. Everything you do brings it back into your head.

So, how do you move on?